Recognizing the Warning Signs of Adultery
If you fear that your lover is cheating on you, you should learn to recognize the warning signs of adultery. While any of these signs could be completely innocent, if the indications add up you may have an unfaithful lover on your hands.
Adultery Symptom One: A Change in the Bedroom
Many people know that if their lover stops showing much interest in the bedroom, it could mean that he or she has found another outlet for their passion. What many don’t realize, however, is that a sudden increase in sexual appetite is also a warning sign of adultery. Some people actually become invigorated by the act of adultery, and become more active in the bedroom when they are at home. Other changes in the bedroom that could indicate adultery include a heightened sense of adventure, unusual sexual requests, and the sudden use of new techniques or positions.
Adultery Symptom Two: A Sudden Sense of Secrecy
A second telltale sign that your lover is cheating on you is a sudden desire for privacy. He or she may open up a separate checking account, or have their credit card or cell phone bills sent to their office instead of their home. Before, they would leave their credit card receipts lying on the nightstand, but now you don’t see them anywhere. They might hide their car keys or start locking their laptop to keep you from snooping around. If you press them, their story might change or details might not match up.
Adultery Symptom Three: Physical Signs
Lipstick on the collar, foundation on the lapel, a whiff of an unfamiliar perfume or cologne on their clothing - these are all familiar signs of a cheating lover. A particularly sneaky lover might wash their clothing before they come home, so unfamiliar laundry scents or looking “too clean” can be warning signs as well. Furthermore, your lover might start taking more care of his or her appearance, dressing more sharply or going to the gym more often.
Adultery Symptom Four: A Bad Feeling in Your Gut
Oftentimes, people will subconsciously notice signs that their lover is committing adultery, and then dismiss them. Don’t shortchange yourself! Experts say that your instincts are usually the most reliable indication of an affair.
Mark Joyner’s e-book, “How to Catch a Cheating Lover,” contains a wealth of information about recognizing the signs of infidelity and taking action to confirm your suspicions. If you think your lover could be cheating on you, download a copy today.
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